Alcohol Issues and Short
Stories
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The following represents various issues, problems,
and short stories about people who have faced drinking
problems.
The Enabling Spouse and Alcohol
Abuse
The wife had
finally had enough with her husband’s abusive
drinking. She was tired of making excuses for him when he
couldn’t show up for work and she was tired of the precarious
financial situation he had put his family into due to his excessive
drinking. Actually the wife went to the local alcohol abuse center
to discuss her husband’s drinking with an alcohol counselor.
The counselor in a supportive but firm way explained to the wife
how she have been contributing to her husband’s drinking behavior
through the years by covering for him rather than letting him
suffer the consequences of his drinking
behavior. In a word, the wife finally understood that she
had been enabling her husband’s irresponsible and abusive
behavior.
No she couldn’t control her husband’s actions, but with the
guidance and support of the healthcare professional at the local
alcohol abuse center, she decided that from this day forward, she
would not contribute to the negative behavior of her husband. The
good news is that after the wife explained this to her husband, and
the husband saw that she was serious, he actually made an
appointment to see an alcohol therapist at the local alcohol abuse
center.
Information About Alcohol Abuse and
Multiple DUIs
Rudy had just received his fourth DUI. When he went before the
court, the Judge told Rudy that his alcohol-related behavior was
deplorable and as a result, he was going to sentence Rudy to serve
six months in jail.
During this time, Rudy would learn more about alcohol,
especially about the negative consequences of abusive drinking and
he would also be required to get alcohol counseling.

The judge emphasized the fact that unless Rudy gets professional
treatment and learns how to live an alcohol-free life, he would be
spending a lot more time in jail. Rudy seemed to understand but
still felt that jail was not the appropriate response. The judge
disagreed, saying that it was his responsibility to keep people who
had received multiple DUIs off the streets.
| Alcohol withdrawal symptoms
rarely occur in people who only drink once in a while. Alcohol
withdrawal symptoms usually occur in people who have been drinking
heavily for weeks or months and then suddenly stop
drinking. |
Alcohol Abuse and Some Common
Effects
There’s probably a number of horror stories about the terrible
effects of alcohol abuse but the most common negative effects of
alcohol abuse are the following. First, chronic alcohol abuse
almost always leads to major health problems. If this wasn’t
enough, long-term alcohol abuse frequently results in work issues
such as poor performance, poor production, or unemployment.
To compound the issue, repetitive alcohol abuse is not easy on
the pocketbook. Stated another way, drinking excessively costs a
relatively great amount of money. It is also not uncommon for
alcohol abusers to receive one or more DUIs. And in this time
period one DUI and especially multiple DUIs can lead to legal
problems such as incarceration. And finally, abusive drinking often
leads to ruined relationships.
| At-risk alcohol use, or problem
drinking, is defined as more than seven drinks per week or more
than three drinks per occasion for women; and more than 14 drinks
per week or more than four drinks per occasion for men. Heavy
drinking is often defined as more than three to four drinks per day
for women and more than five to six drinks per day for
men. |
Personal Responsibility and Alcohol
Abuse
Why do so many people in our society abuse alcohol? Are we so
emotionally weak that we have to drink in order to cope with our
problems? Do we have such poor decision-making skills that we need
to resort to drinking to deal with our difficulties?
Has life become so stressful and tense that we need to drink to
calm down and relax? Personally, I think that the pendulum needs to
shift back to a focus on personal responsibility and personal
accountability. We need to develop our emotional IQ and life skills
IQ in addition to our intelligence.

We need to develop new ways of dealing with our problems that do
not entail destructive and unhealthy activities such as hazardous
and irresponsible drinking. In a word, we need to move away from
abuse and alcohol to a more healthy perspective.
| The more alcohol you drink, the
more likely you are to have a hangover the next day. But there's no
magic formula. A single alcoholic drink is enough to trigger a
hangover for some people, while others may drink heavily and escape
a hangover entirely. |
Alcohol Abuse and Drinking in
Moderation
Two teenage boys, Pete and Frank, were talking about drinking in
general and about alcohol abuse in particular. Pete stated that
just because he drinks occasionally doesn’t necessarily mean that
he engages in alcohol abuse.
Frank then asked Pete if he ever gets drunk. Pete said that of
course he gets drunk a few times per month but since he doesn’t
drink every day, that he is not an alcohol abuser.
Frank just recently did a research paper on alcohol abuse and
saw things differently than Pete. Frank said that according to what
he learned he researched alcohol abuse was that anytime a person
drinks more than a moderate amount, he or she is engaging in
alcohol abuse. This certainly gave Pete something to think
about.

| Because alcohol is not found
easily in nature, genetic mechanisms to protect against excessive
consumption may not have evolved in humans as they frequently have
for protection against natural threats. Some evidence, then,
suggests that a natural lack of genetic protection plays a major
role in alcoholism. Such studies have found that people with a
family history of alcoholism tend to "hold their liquor" better
than those without such history. |
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